The art of public speaking: Best tips for speaking in the public —02

  Speak in such way that people are forced to listen you 

Hello!!!

Nice to see you here, I know you want to know about public speaking.  Or, more better say it you want to know more about public speaking. Why I am saying it more??? Its because I have already posted one page previous to this one. 

If you have not visited that, then you must first check that out, it is The art of public speaking: Tips to speak in public —01. Here, I have explained all the six basic things that you must need to  keep in mind, while you are speaking on a stage. 

Here, I will tell, how you should follow up your moving style, means how you should walk on stage,  how you should move your hands,  when to get serious, and how to behave when telling something specific and many more things, just keep on reading....

So, 

Let's get started to our journey of Tips for speaking in public......

1. What you want public to do, don't do that yourself. 

Let it that you want to tell joke to the people, and you want them to laugh, then while you are telling the joke don't laugh yourself, but try to  give the face reactions that matches with your joke. People understand the reactions much better than the words. You would probably have  listened this lines..

"Words have never been able to explain anything,  neither they will be able to..."

This, is the real truth, so it's always better to use more of pictures than the words, by pictures I mean the expressions of your face. 

While telling the joke if yourself will start to laugh then your joke may become unclear to people,  they might not understand you, and that will give them a very negative impression to people. 

But, there's a exception in it,  regarding  sad, if you want to tell some sad story or news, then you must feel the sadness in you while telling to others. Specially,  when you want to bring tears in the eyes of public then you must being tears and tone both the thing in yourself.  Practice on it so much that before getting on stage you could master the bringing of fake and real tears.

2. Do the practice while ask the others to disturb you

When you are speaking in public there you won't find all the people being quite and listening you but there will be always some people who will not like or agree with what you are saying so they will be disturbing you.

" You can't wait for all the lights to be green in the world so, that you could start travelling, you have to start your journey where its red light wait there, and where its green keep moving, And this path of success" 

So, at least twice or thrice you must practice in distractions, example you may turn on your TV and practice while playing the TV on high volume. This will increase your concentration level. And, you will learn to face the problems in a better way.

Here, television will not be only helping in generating a better concentration level but also there are many other benefits of it, some of them are followed below 

1. Your brain will learn to prepare itself for the uncertain— as when you will be practicing in the disturbances you will not be knowing what's coming up next, so in that condition you are going to to mistake once or twice but slowly and subsequently you will be improving on it.

2. Your imagination power will increase....I know you are thinking what. You will saying have I gone mad, how could some distraction help in improving our imagination power.  But the fact is that it really does.  When we practice in distractions what we think or imagine is that how to reduce this disturbance.  For that your brain tries to create a virtual environment in your mind where you not disturbed at all. Here, what actually your brain is doing its trying to create an imaginary place, that isn't in reality but it's there for you. 

3. Your reaction time will improve...And you will have many more benefits of it

3. Slow down your pace, speak smoothly

When you are speaking to somebody it usually happens that your speaking gets too much faster. Same happens while you are on the stage. So, keep a check on your speed of speaking .

See, the slower you will speak, the soother it will be, and the better people will get your point. Racing through your presentation makes your complete program just a time waste for people. 

So, if you really want to create the impact, then you must make sure that they could listen you properly.

4. Bring the new !!!

Every time you start speaking bring something new which you have never told before in any of your programs.  Repeating same thoughts and same ideas , same quotes and all make your best speech even a boring one. 

I have seen people talking about same thing, presenting them in the same way as they have done it before, giving the same example as the ones they have already spoken some or the other times. Ignoring your all these little- little mistakes,  keeps on rendering your effectiveness, so you must keep a check on these things.

Always try to keep your wearing in such way that it represents your topic, and continuously keep on doing things that would make your audience more comfortable and attentive towards you. And one of the biggest mistake that people do on stage is that, the thing that they found that it worked the previous time will work this time as well.

What I mean is: Like, take it as once you did some activity on the stage like making funny faces or saying something funny on which people laughed quite well. So, the next time you want them to laugh don't repeat that thing again.... In the public always people are there to whom this may feel like annoying. This would totally destroy your image in them at once. 

So, if you do something then be ready for its results. 

"Not having the disease is always better than having the disease and then getting it cured..." 

5. Always be ready before the time.

Before going in the front of the people always make sure that your answer to the above question is always yes. If not ready and you are being called to speak, then never say no to the call. Go over speak, to people what ever you get into your mind. 

" Its good to be at time, but when it comes to provide service  then its always better to be before the time."

Reach the place where you will be speaking, before the sharp time there go and analyse the environment of the people. Modify your tone with that environment, and the other benefit that you get of getting a bit earlier of usual time is that, you will never be late. People will not have to wait for you.

6. Test all the equipment, check whether they fits you well or ....

Before you start your program or your presentation, although DJs are always present there, but you know yourself better, them. So, always get a check of whether all the things are according to you or not.

Next thing is before the program starts go and choose the mike that suites well to you. This matters a lot like some people are not well equipped with using those short wireless mikes, instead of that they prefer, the hand mike or some people prefer having the color microphone and all and check it well that alm you need during your program is kept at right place. Usually It does not happen like some public speaker need anything other than a mike, but if your program is something specific then you must do it.

"Failed to prepare would always take you to prepare to fail, i.e. 《《Failed to prepare = Preare to fail.》》" 

so, always keep these tips of public speaking in public  

and to visit part-01: The art of public speaking: Best tips to Speak in Public --01

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