Confidence: Trust Yourself more than You

 Confidence: Build and nurture it.

Namaste ji!!!

It's very nice to see you here. So, how you are??? .....

Yoooo! I think awesome isn't???

So, it's 10:23  PM, I am laying on my bed, thinking of how should I start. You know, the biggest problem or difficulty that we face is how to get started, and same thing I am also facing. Yesterday it has rained too much,  and suddenly within a single day the whole weather changed. Till the day before yesterday,  it was hot night, but today I think, i will need something to keep myself warm during sleep. I have been thinking the content from last three days, I still a student had too many things to study everyday making it hard to get any free time.  But, whenever I get, i use to think on the thing that I will like to share it with you all.

Ohhh!!! Already I wasted yours a lot of time telling all these things.

So without any further delay let's get to for what we are here....

You may fake everything up, but you can't bring the fake confidence in you. You can't just fake it to make it...The only way to be confident is to get confident.

 

Have you ever felt like you got more than you have expected to get. Or, vice-versa you thought to get more but ended up getting below your expectations.

These two different situations aren't very strange to us either. Some or the other times everyone of get the pleasure to face these things. Are you thinking why did I said it pleasure??? You will understand it with the end of this posts.

People want to see the miracles happening, they want to see the real magic but the problem is that they don't know how these real magic are performed. See in reality the only magic in this world is that we have this superb brain, and this is all that decides what miracles we will be performing in our coming time, and in that one of the most important ingredient needed to do that magic is Confidence. 

 

Most people have the ability and capacity to do things to which others can only imagine of.

But they aren't able to do it most times. It's not because they don't want to, but that's because they afraid of the society.  They aren't confident of what they are doing. And, to these people it matters more, What will the people say??? The who thinks of this, is from one type unconfident  people. 

Now,  comes the most important question, Who will believe you if you only don't believe yourself???

Everybody have 24 hours a day. 7 days a week,  365 days a year. And you also have these, like others you also have 32 teeth, millions of hair,  2,2,2,2 hands, legs,  eyes, and ears, but you have one different thing from others, that's the your way of thinking,  you're brain controls it and that's the reason some are behind you and some are better than you....

 

There are many types of unconfident people. You know it well, that a problem can only be solved if we know what the problem is, so its important to see the ways in which we get unconfident:

(i) when we get confused, it's most of the time due to lack of the confidence .

(ii) while you are doing something you are not sure, whether the thing that you are doing is actually right to do or not???

(iii) when you have good knowledge about something, but when that's needed you start having a dull memory of it.

(iv) when you are to speak up to the people,  you voice shatters, or your leg start to vibrate. or don't get anything to speak generally these things show up the unconfidence in you.

(v) if get unsure about the things, then also its mostly getting unconfident. 

See, there are many other ways in which we get unconfident, I have shared just the most common of them.

So,  now its Tim to look at there solutions,  how could we actually get confident. 

And,  the answer is very simple,  just get confident.  See, this simple answer has too much complex meaning hidden in it. Okay, first you tell how to eat an banana ??? And you will say it by eating it. But in that to, too many processes are left to be told, so now we will be talking about this only. 

Ways to get confident:- 

(i) Do the good things, even when no body sees you doing.

Sun even rises when the rest of the world is in its deep sleep. And that is the reason why the Sun is brighter than any other brightest thing on the earth.

(ii)When ever you do things up, do it full concentration. 

(iii) Don't do simultaneous multitasking...till when it's not very important to do.

Till the time one is not found, don't go for the other because when you are going to other, you may have been very close the the first. 

(iv) what ever decision you are making, think well on.

( v) Believe on yourself. 

(vi) never limit your dreams. 

(vii) talk to people, may be you can start by just talking to one- two persons. 

(viii) don't think of what people will say??? Remember people are there just to follow you when you are successful,  and to pull you down when you are struggling. 

(ix) listen to experienced people, use there experiences to just review your thoughts, don't change it ....

The finale thing I would say is that, just be the true you,  improve your inner self dream and think of the best possible.... And these all the things will surely help in getting superb confident. 

So,

Okay my loved reader, for today I have only this much to say.

Then, see you soon here only, keep visiting regularly.

Till then bye.....take care of yourself. 

Thank you 

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